What would you do diffntly if you knew noone would judge you?

This relates to me somewhat strongly because it has been a personal goal in my life to reach a point where I could lead my life in a sort of blissful awareness of what others think of me. I say ‘blissful awareness’ because it is usually said that with ignorance comes bliss, but I think it would be a much more rewarding conclusion to be able to see bliss while being aware of everything around you. I don’t particularly like the idea of ignoring things to be at peace with them, so I have been trying to accept the truth in people’s judgments in order to be at peace with them. In past times of my life I would often find myself afraid to be alone in public places, because when you are without a group of familiar friends you are forced to decide to be yourself. The first difficulty faced here was finding what “myself” was, so I could accurately portray it for others. My conclusion here was that the “real me” was not anything that could be represented accurately, at least with physical limitations such as speech and actions. This made me able to accept the fact that I would never actually appear as I was inside. The second thing that I decided was that nobody ever actually scrutinizes you as much as you scrutinize yourself.

Realizing this allowed me to lead myself much more freely in open spaces. Knowing that people trust you to be yourself regardless of how you think about yourself is very reassuring when it comes to presenting yourself. So my response to the picture would be this: the reality is that the fear of judgment is an irrational one, and what makes people judge you is when they see you afraid of being judged, and not being comfortable with yourself. The best thing to do is to act as if nobody is judging you all the time, even if you are convinced otherwise.